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PRETZEL POSITION FREE
This position is fun if you want to experiment with BDSM, plus, the partner in control has free reign to pleasure their partner.
The partner with free hands can pleasure the restrained partner orally, manually, or with toys. One partner sits in the chair while the other partner restrains their ankles and wrists behind the chair. Get a chair and something to use as restraints, such as ties or belts. It also grants the penetrating partner easy access to stimulate their partner's clitoris during sex. This position allows for deep penetration which can stimulate deep vaginal erogenous zones, says Nazanin Moali, PhD, clinical psychologist, sex expert, and host of the Sexology podcast. The penetrating partner enters from the front, facing the other partner. If they are flexible, they can hold onto their ankles. The partner being penetrated lies on their back and raises their legs into the air into a wide-open V shape. Additionally, the penetrating partner can reach around and stimulate the breasts, nipples, or clitoris of the person being penetrated. For example, Kort recommends doing this in front of a mirror so you can watch yourselves having sex. This position in theory is pretty simple, but it's what you do with it that makes it really fun. The partner being penetrated can bounce up and down, grind, or mix it up. The partner being penetrated sits on top, mounting the other, while facing away from them. The penetrating partner sits on a chair, couch, or edge of the bed. Tip: If you have trouble engaging in actual penetration in this position (it might be tricky depending on both of your individual anatomy) you can use toys on each other or fondle each other's favorite erogenous zones. Kort says this position is also ideal for incorporating sex toys. The penetrating partner's behind will be on display here, making for a unique new dynamic. This is a sex position that allows for the partner being penetrated to have a whole different view than they're used to. The partner being penetrated lifts up their legs and wraps them around their partner's waist or rests them on their shoulders to raise up their pelvis, so the penis can enter. The penetrating partner straddles the other, facing away, so when they lower themselves down, onto their hands or forearms, their head will be between their partner's lower legs. The partner being penetrated lies down flat. So, if you love the deep penetration that rear-entry positions allow you but you crave more intimacy, give this one a shot. "This position allows for deep, powerful thrusts at a sideways angle, and you have a lot of eye contact because you are interwoven," says Kort. One of the partner's legs will be underneath the penetrating partner, and the other will wrap around the penetrating partner's waist, so their bodies will be entwined.
The penetrating partner kneels and enters.
The partner being penetrated should lie on their side with their legs open and ready for penetration.One of the benefits of this position is that the penetrating partner's hands will be free, which means they can be used for some anal play to make things even more fun, if both partners are up for it, says Joe Kort, PhD, certified sex therapist and clinical director of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health. This seated position allows for a new type of rear entry, which makes it a spicier alternative to doggy style. The partner being penetrated lowers themselves down, putting their hands on the floor, with their legs on either side of the penetrating partner's hips.The partner being penetrated mounts them on top, facing away from the other partner.The penetrating partner sits on the edge of a bed or a couch.With your arms around his neck and your legs around his buttocks, you two will be as close as can be as you climax together. While you keep the movement building, throw your knee on the ground over his bent leg and pump harder. When you both just can't take it any longer, abandon the Pretzel. And since both his and your arms feel free to roam, just think of the places-backsides, testicles, breasts-they can go. While there won't be a lot of in-and-out action, your slow torso-to-torso grind provides great clitoral contact and allows a more gradual ascent to climactic cloud nine. This pretzel pose is the ultimate in carnal equality: You're both in the exact same stance and share the reins when it comes to blowing each other's minds. Leaning forward on your planted feet, both of you lunge back and forth for a slow, upright romp. Each of you should place the opposite foot flat on the ground and nudge closer, joining genitals. Both you and your lover should start by kneeling face-to-face. To get into this twisted position, bring him to his knees, right from the start.